How to deal with trouble makers?

[42bamnech058]

I am not recommending this but I just ignore it. I don't have to fix the mess she creates. Try to live your life the best you can and if it is necessary to cut her out of your life. You can't cure your mother's addiction a professional could help her but she has to be willing to see that professional. The best thing you can do is stop paying her fines and debt.

Bamnech 058 4EN

[41Jutatip042]

Control your reactions. Do not respond to a troublemaker in an emotional way, as this may encourage the person to focus on you. Keep calm when dealing with her and ignore negative remarks or behavior so she knows her tactics do not work on you. Keep a list of problems the troublemaker is causing.

Jutatip 042 4EN